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We've all been there. You buy the latest "it" piece because everyone's wearing it, only for it to sit untouched in your closet.

Been there? Same.

In high school, my wardrobe was basically chosen for me. Uniforms didn't leave much room for self-expression. I never had to think too hard about what to wear because the decision was already made. But when I got to college, everything changed. Suddenly, I had to figure out what my style actually looked like beyond dress codes and Pinterest boards.

And I'll be completely honest, at first I copied a little bit of everything. One day it was streetwear, the next day it was minimalist style, and the day after that I was pulling inspo from Y2K. But none of it felt like me. Just versions of someone else's style.

What I've learned since then is that finding your personal style isn't about chasing every trend or having a Pinterest-perfect closet. It's about understanding who you are, how you want to show up, and building a wardrobe that reflects that. Whether you're heading to class, a coffee shop, or a career path you've been praying for. 

If you've ever stood in front of your closet thinking, "I have nothing to wear," even though it's full, this post is for you. These tips helped me go from uniform mode to intentional style, and I hope they help you too.

A timeless wardrobe is built with versatile, lasting pieces.

1. Does this feel like me today or just who I used to be?

Trends are fun for inspiration, but if you're constantly shopping to keep up, it gets overwhelming (and expensive). Plus, let's be real: your true style is what makes you stand out! Trends will always come and go. But a look that feels authentically you? That's timeless.

How To Build a Style That Grows With You

1. Start with a style you actually love.

Not what's trending. Not what your favorite influencer or celebrity is wearing.

Ask yourself, "What outfits make me feel the most like me?"

If it makes you feel confident and comfortable, that's a forever piece.

2. Create A Signature Style

Everyone has a "style signature," even if you don't realize it yet.

It could be cozy neutrals, structured jackets, colorful sneakers, simple gold jewelry...whatever feels like home when you wear it.

Once you find your signature, you'll notice shopping gets a whole lot easier (and way more fun!)

3. Let Trends Be the Spice, Not the Main Course

If a new trend genuinely speaks to you, by all means, add it to your wardrobe! Just don't build your whole closet around something that might fade out in a few months.

Think of trends like fun accessories—a sprinkle, not the foundation.

4. Shop With Purpose

Before you buy something new, pause and ask:

"Will I still love this a year from now?"

If the answer is yes, welcome it to the family. If not, it's okay to admire it from a distance and keep your closet full of pieces that truly fit your life.

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The most timeless look? Confidence reflected back at you.

5. Confidence is Your Best Outfit

No trend, no label, and no fancy item will ever top the power of wearing something with confidence. When you wear what you love, you shine in a way that no runway trend can duplicate.

Here's the Bottom Line

Yes, trends can be fun guests at the party, but your personal style is the one that stays after the music ends.

Building a style that lasts isn't just good for your closet; it's good for the Earth too. Fewer impulse buys. Less waste. More you.

Because real style doesn't expire. It evolves—just like you! (: